She’s older and I’m still struggling to Iand her from long-distance

2021.09.19 03:45 TheBoldNomad She’s older and I’m still struggling to Iand her from long-distance

So, I’m (sadly) an ENFJ, Type 2, Aries male.
I’ve been trying to catch this woman’s attention for three years now. We met on Instagram, I slid in the DM’s. We chatted there for a while, eventually texting.
I’ve never in my life consistently been so drawn to anyone like I am her, or even anything.
I’m not sure what her personality type or enneagram is, but her sign is Sagittarius — but I can’t help but feel like whatever she is, she’s a direct opposite of me. I don’t know if that’s just the age difference (I’m 10 years younger and prefer older women) or just what we’ve been through or what.
I wish I did know what type she was, because maybe it would help, but I’m not sure how she even feels/views all this stuff.
We haven’t been able to meet in person because we’re in different states and since talk (er, texting/messaging), we’ve both also moved states. I’m trying with every fiber of my being to be what she needs but I am so fucking lost and it is ripping me to pieces daily because all I want is her and I can’t see life without nor do I want her.
But I’m struggling to do things that please her.
She needs space; I struggle to give it.
This is mainly, at least in my opinion, because I can’t get enough of her. The times when we do text, I’m already missing her and not getting enough so I don’t know how to know be overbearing/smothering but that alone seems to be too much for her.
I’m a pleaser… and I want everything to be perfect for everyone, but her especially.
Her favorite foods made to her liking. Her clothes folded how she likes them. Her coffee and eggs prepared the right way.
And when things aren’t done how likes/wants them, I feel bad for not being able to change it. I feel a mixture of sadness and anger because I could be the one fixing it but I’m not and that’s upsetting.
I’m barely the nickel to her dime; I’ll always see it that way because there’s no way someone like me should be able to land someone like her… she’s a total catch and then some.
But damnit this feeling sucks.
On top of it all, I’m very inexperienced in pretty much all aspects of a relationships. I just have my journal of ideas that I’ve had since I was 13 of how to do things in a way that hopefully makes someone appreciate you.
I’ve had exquisite flowers delivered, shipped desserts cross-country, ordered meals to be delivered to help her relax after a long day or just so that she can enjoy something she likes…. But it still doesn’t feel like enough.
I don’t feel like I’m doing the right things because I still struggle to feel close enough. I don’t like to ask questions because I was raised to feel like prying on a woman’s life is wrong and I don’t like being in situations where someone has to tell me know so I’m order to avoid that I don’t ask questions… I just listen and take notes for when I learn something new.
I hate the way that I am because it only seems to make her want to distance herself but I feel so lost…
When things go wrong for her it seems like she is the type that wants space and to be left alone but all I want to do is be there to hold her and wrap my arms around her and play with her hair and tell her it will all be okay.
I want her more than I’ve ever wanted anything in life and I feel awful, almost selfish for not knowing how to be what she needs.
I can’t quite put my finger on what exactly it is that makes me want her so bad, but maaaaaaannnnnn do I want to put something in her. (We don’t even get to talk about sexual feelings because that’s a no-zone for her — I’m guessing because of her prior marriage she’s in the process of putting behind her and it’s beyond tough for me)
Damn. The feelings of this hurts worse than anything I’ve ever felt and that includes when my parents left.
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